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Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Co-Parenting 101: Tackling the 5 Most Common Post-Divorce Dilemmas
Divorce may end a marriage, but for parents, it marks the beginning of a new and often challenging journey: co-parenting.
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Divorce Without Drama: How Mediation Offers a Better Divorce Experience
While many are familiar with the basic advantages of mediation, such as lower costs and faster resolution, there are several lesser-known...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Conflict with In-Laws: A Guide to Healthy Relationships
Family conflicts with in-laws and relatives can strain relationships. Explore strategies for navigating disagreements through open communica
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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When Money Tears Families Apart: Navigating Inheritance Feuds
Money feuds over inheritance, financial support, spending habits can tear families apart. Get tips for defusing tensions through open commun
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Navigating the Challenges of Toxic or Narcissistic Parents
Toxic or narcissistic parents often exhibit a pattern of behavior that revolves around control, manipulation, and a lack of empathy.
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Understanding Sibling Rivalry: Exploring the Underlying Causes
Sibling rivalry, the competition and conflict between brothers and sisters, is a common phenomenon that most families experience. While it m
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Reclaiming Your Power from Narcissistic Parents with a Mediator's Guidance
Family mediators can play a crucial role in helping families navigate situations involving toxic or narcissistic parents. Here are some ways
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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The Family Ties That Bind...and Sometimes Choke
The ones closest to us can be our greatest champions and most steadfast supporters. Yet those same loved ones also possess an unparalleled a
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Navigating Parenting Style Differences
Even the most loving and committed partners can find themselves at odds over their approaches to parenting. Conflicting perspectives on disc
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Navigating Religious and Cultural Differences Within Families
In an increasingly multicultural world, religious and cultural diversity within families is becoming more common. Whether due to intermarria
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Gentle Parenting and Childhood Anxiety: Finding the Right Balance
Gentle parenting's empathy may help some anxious kids, but lack of structure could heighten anxiety for others. Get insights on balancing th
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Protecting Your Family's Mental Health:Benefits of a Collaborative Divorce
Divorce can be one of the most difficult and emotionally taxing experiences a person can go through. However, there is a way to navigate thi
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Mastering Conflict Resolution Goals: Learn effective communication and goal-setting strategies for a smoother process.
In mastering conflict resolution goals, some effective strategies for clearly defining and communicating goals during mediation sessions...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Balancing Act: Emotional Self-Regulation in Mediation
Some potential challenges that may arise when expressing one’s needs during divorce mediation include: 1. Emotional obstacles: Divorce is...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Coping with Rage: The Dual Role of Anger as a Mechanism and Messenger
The idea that a fit of anger is often a projection of innermost negative feelings is rooted in psychological concepts, particularly those...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Transitioning to Different Homes: Tips for Smooth Adjustments
Co-parenting involves children transitioning between two households, which can be a significant adjustment. Here are tips to help make...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Owning Your Mistakes Can Benefit You
Recognizing and taking responsibility for one's mistakes is a crucial aspect of healthy and successful relationships. Here are some key...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Choose Your Battles - Conflict Resolution
Let's discuss the importance of choosing your battles when disagreeing with others. This is a valuable skill in maintaining healthy...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Empathy: The Key to Unlocking Deeper Connection in Love
Empathy is the cornerstone of healthy and thriving relationships, playing a pivotal role in fostering emotional connection, trust, and...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Unlocking Success: The Essential Post-Session Questions for Growth
Asking questions to assess your performance in a conflict resolution session and identify areas for improvement can offer several...
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